Soul Talks

Commitment 

 Relationship goals these days are more based on self priorities, 

convenience and comfort zones. Sad but harsh truth. In this " Flaunt in Public, Demoralized in Person" technological era somewhere all of us our losing our aspirations for desired relationships.

Ideally care, concern, affection, empathy,love, responsibility, warmth and commitment are second names of relationship but presently the meaning has saturated to " Free Bird Attitude". Easy relationship goals are adored and practiced by many in order to keep oneself away out of its impact. Who wants responsibility when money is not in flow and monetary insecurity is always a sword of Damocles?

And when commitment comes in perspective the very easy escape is either not to believe in it or run away from it. Easy standardized behavioral pattern of People make them detached from all those who ask for commitment. The obvious cover coat with high collar for such people is " Generation Gap" . If someone settles except commitment the love would be in the air. In spite of all these ascending steps of devalues a very relevant question remains: Is commitment important for relationship?

Yes, it is. Many school of thoughts consider commitment as " Meter of Progression" in relationships. For commitment is like a glue for two people to stay together, to respect each other, to be each others' support system and  above all for all those less important reasons like financial security and recognition in society.The ability to commit shows one as strong and tough, and tough people last long but tough times don't. 

Commitment can't be detachment tool ever rather it harmonizes people and make relationship rooted and enduring of all hardships.

Running away or ignoring from commitment won't let anyone a free bird rather it involves person into false relationships which are temporary, painful and superficial.

Sangeeta Sharma