Sunday, 28 September 2014

" Much and not many makes all the difference"
If we take troubles in our life as many it becomes easy for us to find solutions for our problems. Recently a friend of mine has passed through a problem, much in intensity, but he made himself blindfolded to many facets of it and got entangled in it. Of course I am not destiny decider for his life but as linked with him as good friend I have many things as controls in my hand for instance suggesting many ways to come clean out of the trouble or showing an alternate path of piling it up with much of perseverance and being positive. Yes what makes all the difference in our way of perceiving life is........Is it many fold or has much  to sort out?
With my experience I have learnt that life runs after you if you let it be.Let me give an example, You have a beautiful alluring toy in your hand and now you show it to an innocent kid, what would you expect? Will you run after a child to let it have or the child will run after you to take it? Yes, that is what we all to empower ourselves with. Life is that innocent child, its not at all complicated to let it chase you. Hand yourself with many attractions like smile, patience, positivity, self belief, empathy and let the magic run in your life. Never control your problems with much of stress and trauma, bring many attractions to make problem kneel down in front of your self trust.
However problems don't come in packets but we with the dint of our power of introspection can packet them. How? , is the obvious question ill expect from my readers. Can you captivate air,the automatic answer is no but we do compress it by  keeping it under a pressure that is greater than atmospheric pressure.Thats what is the solution to our much aggravated problems. Fist it by applying pressure of positivity and more enduring power that is greater than the much intensity of your problems.
Many is what we ought to give shape to, the moment liminial space for much is created we come under stress and depression. Locate your comfort zones by setting the directional needle to the solutions and not to the causes of your problems. Winning the situation is all about to think winning.
Make your problems countable and your strength as uncountable than only you'll have that sweet smile on your face even you are in midst of dying situation.
Practice: " " Much and not many makes all the difference, as we need to combat much, many are in our control."
Sangeeta Sharma

Sunday, 7 September 2014

Meaningless Meaning of Meaningful life
Life has always been astonishing me with its tantrums. One moment it offers me something to relish and on the other to even find meaning worth meaningful. When I see a butterfly I perceive all colors of life flying.....flying and not consistent.....Which color should I pick for my meaningful life? I see a kid smiling with different muscles spread indicating smile smiles away stress, but does it make me smile for life throughout? In every human I find a little God, who preaches different school of thoughts, which one I follow? Yonder in the vast sky birds going back to their home, A rainbow full of hues, blue sky, rising and setting Sun, shades of moon, waves rolling , tides striking....everything has transitional appearance or existence, where do all these draw line of meaningful meaning?

I am no pessimistic, but I am researcher of life chasing it the way it comes to me.I smile with it and shed a tear or two when it wants me to do that even, I dance with it like its soul mate, I spread my expansions hugging it, I shout ignoring its limitations, I call it with all my desires and above all I worship it with its idealism......but where does the defined meaning lie?

Every night I sleep in its lap with peaceful yet disturbed sleep, I try to grab it with its chore values yet find lack of these in some, I try to comfort it when I find pain of life, I try to embrace it like its partner to blossom and to grow.....but in turn every morning it offers me different temptations to be aloof and alienated from it .......meaningless meaning of meaningful life.

I talk, I preach, I fight, I laugh, I sing, I love life to get back love......but do we really? These are not expectations, nevertheless quintessential panorama of just small part of life. We all try to win it with our own strategies but who wins at the end...Its meaningful Life and leave us with its meaningless meaning. Alas! It seems to be a wild goose chase....I am trying to run after it to get it in my fist but am I really going to?
It comes running to me with its pain but comes walking with happiness. What a dilemma! I try to run fast with it , I got tired but it doesn't. I sigh and doubt but surprisingly it gives me back my strong belief in its being......sits somewhere at the corner of my heart with its innocent smile and tickling me to have faith in its meaningless meaning.
All fog cleared I walk hand in hand with the meaningless meaning of meaningful life.
Sangeeta Sharma